Media personality Toke Makinwa raised eyebrows on April 9, 2025, during an episode of her podcast Toke Moments, where she playfully declared she’d consider being a “third, fourth, or fifth wife” if the right opportunity arose.
The 40-year-old, known for her bold takes, was discussing modern relationships when she quipped, “I’m not saying I’m running to polygamy, but if there’s real love and it works, why not? Life’s too short for rules.” Fans praised her openness, while critics questioned if she was endorsing polygamy in Nigeria’s evolving social landscape.
Makinwa, a bestselling author and VJ turned entrepreneur, has been candid about her single life since her 2017 divorce from Maje Ayida, often joking about dating pressures. Her remark comes amid Nigeria’s growing debate over polygamy, with 30% of men in urban areas reportedly in multi-wife setups, per a 2024 study.
She clarified that her focus remains on happiness, not marriage, citing her thriving businesses like TM Luxury and a new Glow skincare line. Supporters lauded her for challenging norms, while detractors argued she risks glamorizing complex dynamics. Makinwa, unfazed, doubled down on X: “I said what I said—love me or leave me!” Her statement keeps her at the heart of cultural conversations, blending humor with unapologetic authenticity.